Listening, paying attention to the needs of others, respect ,
mutual support and taking responsibility; all that and often even
more are wishes in an equal relationship. If several things remain
unfulfilled, we often doubt ourselves and/or our partner. The small
steps that we take towards each other are important. In my
therapeutic work, I like to break through rigid communication
patterns and formulate first common aims which are feasible.
It is important to me that play rules are accepted to protect mutual
respect. In couple therapy I mediate an understanding of
everybody's perception and feelings and show how much they
might differ between the two of you. If a gentle separation is your
aim, we will work on the parametres of this aim.